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LETTER TO THAT BROTHER WHO CAN’T WAIT AGAIN TO LAVISH HIS LOVE ON THAT SISTER; TAKE A MOMENT TO CONSIDER THESE WORDS BY MASTERPIECE DAVID OLAWADE

LETTER TO THAT BROTHER WHO CAN’T WAIT AGAIN TO LAVISH HIS LOVE ON THAT SISTER; TAKE A MOMENT TO CONSIDER THESE WORDS BY MASTERPIECE DAVID OLAWADE

Dear Padi mi,

It gives me great delight again my brother to write you in anticipation to hear that Princess Charming you so desire has finally consented to your proposal.

I know you have been very proactive to prepare your body, soul and spirit for her with many actions that would make the relationship very promising. I guess if she was aware of these actions she may hasten in giving you a positive response.

Before you conclude on carrying out such plans, please, consider these words because her case may be different and her desires for that prospective relationship may not be what you have on mind for her.

Bobo, I know you have the list of gifts you plan sending to her momentarily. The make up kit for her convocation, the wrist watch for her birthday, the surprise pizza for lunch at work, the perfume after conniving with her best friend to know the brand she loves, the peplum gown of her favourite colour so you could see her express that alluring nature she gat, the engagement ring for the official marriage proposal and so on.

Don’t be surprised if all these gifts doesn’t really move her like your attention to help her activate and sharpen the “spiritual gifts” she is graced with because she is concerned about her within than her without.

You may be planning hanging out with her at different places; at shopping malls, the cinema, the beach, restaurant and the likes. Don’t consider her as “spiricoco” if she desires more that you hang out with her in the secret place in fellowship with the Holy Spirit than in public relaxation centers. Her best place could be the secret place and where she gets real cool may be the closet.

You may be planning to spice up her activities by introducing her to doing bodily exercises, playing of video games with her and so on. Don’t be worried bros., if all these activities are making her bored. What interests her more may be you introducing her to new patterns of spiritual dynamics and realities.

I know you have started visiting the gym since you overheard someone tell you many sisters love “six packs” and you discovered that what you have is “fat packs or one and half packs” at the moment. Please, keep doing the push ups but she may be concerned about your Spiritual stature than your physical muscle. What she desires may be “Mr. Spirit” rather than “Mr. Macho”.

Bros., I know you have started knowing and preparing to start taking those recipes to last longer in bed and to avoid erectile dysfunction so you could satisfy her on bed. Good decision sir but she desires more that you last longer in the prayer room than in the bed room. Yes, she likes the activities in the other room but she wants to see you more active in the upper room.

Of what use is your life if you desire and can be active for one hour in the bed room (other room) while you are sleeping in just 20 minutes in the prayer room (upper room)? Something must be wrong with you nigba yen.

Bobo, wise up, give attention to what matters to her so you won’t end up beating the air and looking stupid to her.

Don’t get me wrong sir, please do those activities you have on mind for her because they would also facilitate the relationship but give more attention to her concerns.

Love you brother, I’m concerned about your relationship.

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LETTER TO THAT BAE WHO WANTS TO GIVE THAT BROTHER A RED CARD BY MASTERPIECE DAVID OLAWADE

LETTER TO THAT BAE WHO WANTS TO GIVE THAT BROTHER A RED CARD BY MASTERPIECE DAVID OLAWADE

Why are you so quick to bring out the red card? Hope is not that brother with the “red car” that you are envisaging that he would come and propose to you someday. Bae, he may tarry long and never come, by then you would have missed this one and those that would come that time may not be an option but you will see them as a rescue mission.

Why are you so quick to tell him you are still praying when you knew you will never take his matter to God because you have already made your decision from Day 1. Please, stop this prayer warrior camouflage approach and let the Bobo know his faith oo.

Why are you saying you are not convinced when you know you are really confused because you never imagined such a brother coming to you.

The reason why you want to answer that brother with a “No” is because he doesn’t appear like the brother you are envisaging and you already have a standard for your future boo.

Sister, stop comparing that brother with “Masterpiece” ooo. He may not dress like Masterpiece who is still on “Legedes Benz” and using “solĂ© airways” (a moving motor park) for his journeys while the brother loves to appear on casual with his Lexus SUV.

Don’t compare that brother with David Olawade who has a sense of humour and can write romantic letters. The brother may appear gentle and not be expressive but he can learn to be that kind of man you desire if you give him your consent.

The brother may look too spiritual and you have made up your mind not to go out with a SU. Remember, he won’t be a SU in the “other room” oo. That he always talk about the upper room doesn’t mean he doesn’t mind the other room when you give him the chance, only time would tell.

Don’t be deceived because he didn’t propose to you like your colleague’s boo did to her. What matters more is the end, not the approach.

Don’t judge that brother or his spiritual life because he doesn’t appear on the posters, what is more important is he appears in the portals of heaven and he is gaining ascendancy momentarily.

He may not appear before men often to minister as you desire of a boo but be sure he appears before God often to touch more spiritual realities. Remember, there are lots of men who minister to people but maltreat their spouses.

You may not get to see him in many events that you desire to see him, be sure he is not missing in the secret place. You may not see him with the microphone but he is called to do something in God’s agenda and the microphone may not be his own tool.

Aunty, if you want to give him a red card, please, give him on time. Don’t use him and keep him waiting to fill in the gap as you anticipate your desired “Prince Charming”.

Don’t also think of giving him a red card because you are afraid and concerned about how you can cope with the height he has attained in life, ministry and career. Before he considered you among others, he must have thought of that and he saw something in you that you may not be conscious of. See it as a privilege and an opportunity to brace up and learn.

You can make your decision now ma.

*Much love,*
_Legislator and Minister of Affairs, Association Of Baeless Single Brothers Of Nigeria,_
*Masterpiece David Olawade*

LETTER TO MY BAE: CAN WE BE ‘CARNAL’ PLEASE? BY MASTERPIECE DAVID OLAWADE

LETTER TO MY BAE: CAN WE BE ‘CARNAL’ PLEASE? BY MASTERPIECE DAVID OLAWADE

Dear MasterQueen,

Let me play the ring tone to you again, “you know I love you and I will always do”. I can hear your sonorous voice in response to the statement and it sounds as if it’s your first time of saying it to me. My heart is resonating in thoughts while my brain is revolving round the statement in deep meditation.

Bae, I’m yet to figure out the status I was when I approached you to pronounce my conjugal manifesto in anticipation of the ultimate proposal that would penultimate my action to take you to the altar for the whole world to see that I got a good catch finding the bone of my bone.

I can’t say if I was in the spirit or flesh when I approached you but I think what happened had never happened to me before. I was in the spirit and in the flesh at the same time.

I was in the spirit because I knew I prophesied, all the revelational and vocal gifts were at work in me at the same time; the discerning of spirit, spirit of prophecy, word of knowledge and word of wisdom found great expression as I told you things that happened to me years ago that I didn’t know earlier and experiences that would happen to us in years to come after moments of speaking in tongues before approaching you.

Bae, not only were Revelational gifts of the spirit were at work that day, the power gifts were at stand by. I held to the gift of faith, if you give me a “red card” for my intentions, I will remain positive, keep the faith alive that better days are ahead and with God all things are possible. I was steadfastly with the gift of healing, if you broke my heart with your disposition that day, I would be able to heal my heart immediately.

Even the fruit of the spirit were also at play; I am “gentle”, I felt “peace”, I had “Joy” like a river, I am “humble” and ready to let go of myself and ego, I was ready for “longsuffering”, to be “patient” and to “endure” if you will keep me waiting or on hold for long. I had to check my “temperament” to agree with yours and I have decided to be “faithful” to my words as a “meek” dude that I am.

I was in the flesh as I felt nervous and lots of vibrations were occurring inside me at the same time. I was emotional and looking into your eyes answered the thousands of questions on my mind.

I told you that I like you and you said you like me too. I told you again that I love you and you said you love me, but with the love of Christ and I began to wonder if my own love is love of Dragon. I proposed to you to marry me and you said you need to pray about it. I hope my manifesto hasn’t turned you to a prayer warrior and intercessor?

Please don’t use the time we are supposed to start this experience that I’m anticipating to go on your knees and if you are praying to rebuke that spirit that led me to you, “kole wark oo”. I’m also praying and ready to stay on your matter.

Please, in case your answer is going to be YES. Also pray that Jesus won’t come here anytime soon oo. Because you and I will not join Him back ooo. We will take permission and travel to one Island, for our honeymoon.

After some months, they will give us direction how to meet them up there in heaven. I have read Bible front and back, I have not seen any where God said there will be honeymoon in heaven.

I know you will report me to your friends, mentors, spiritual and biological parents. Before you make your decision, think deeply on their advice and counsels. Don’t just anchor your decision on them but if I be a man of God, every counsel of Ahitophel would not stand. Please permit my prayer, I don’t know how it’s doing me again my dear.

For your friends, I may have offended one of them before unconsciously or one of them is eyeing me and sees this time as a pay back; your mentors don’t know me, they may have issues against my name and career which may influence their judgment; your parents may not like my tribe and pocket, this can result in them being biase with their advice.

Bae, I know marriage is a spiritual institution but we would not leave the carnal engagements unturned ooo. As we would concentrate and give attention to the spiritual we would also take our time on the carnal involvements too.

I know speaking in tongues would be the official language in our home, we would greet ourselves in tongues, pray together, prophesy together, study together, fast together, get revelations together, get visions and fall into trance together.

We will also be carnal together, play football and watch matches together, exercise together, cook together, grace occasions together, play together and so on. We would minister to ourselves in the spirit, also in flesh and blood.

We will both be active together in the “upper room” and in the “other room”. As the people of Israel appeared before the Lord and were not ashamed. We would appear before ourselves and know ourselves intimately, we would not be ashamed.

We would have regular intercourse in the glory realm, we would smile, speak in tongues, prophesy and catch visions about the seeds that would be conceived. When you conceive, I won’t say, “You are pregnant”, I would say; “We are pregnant” because intercourse is an action between two parties in agreement. We would both take all the responsibilities; the house chores, waking up at midnights, cooking and even delivering of our baby.

We won’t use personal or subjective pronouns for entities in our pocession. We would say; our houses, our cars, our children and so on.

MasterQueen, as we had proposed over time to make ourselves the first mentor to our children in ministry, finance, marriage and career, we would do all in our capacity to live the best of life we can.

Matching attires and outfits is not negotiable in many of our outings oo. We will make some of our outings fashion parade and our children would be the judge.

To be continued.

ENVISIONING KINGDOM MARRIAGE AND FAMILY IN THE GLORY REALM BY MASTERPIECE DAVID OLAWADE

ENVISIONING KINGDOM MARRIAGE AND FAMILY IN THE GLORY REALM BY MASTERPIECE DAVID OLAWADE

John the Baptist was filled from the womb since he was conceived by Elizabeth (Luke 1:15). When Mary visited Elizabeth, John from the womb caused his mother to be filled in the spirit (Luke 1:28, 41-45) and she prophesied.

In this glory realm, our children would be filled with the Holy Ghost from the womb. We won’t be surprised when our children kick in the womb and their mother is slain to the extent of falling under the anointing.

We won’t mistake it for health issues or dizziness, we would catch the signals that it’s the supernatural in play.

Gone will those days when an anointed christian couple would have sexual intercourse in marriage and be ashamed because they see it as carnality.

In our time and days, we won’t be ashamed because heaven would bear witness to the day for the conception through the intercourse would be a glorious seed that would shake generations to come.

We would finish sexual intercourse with our spouse, we would thank God, agree together, pray in tongues and prophesy. We would catch vision about our seeds. We would feel the sensation of the anointing during and after the intercourse.

Our children won’t need to pray against generational curses having effect on their lives because we would have completely overcome it for them before they were conceived.

Our children would flow in the supernatural from the womb and we won’t be surprised if the first statement they would make would be in other tongues.

In our family, unknown tongues would be the official language for all. Before we tell our spouse good morning, we would first of all “skabosh” and she would respond in this manner “lankuata lakete”.

When our children act nasty, we would punish them by sending them to our prayer room to pray in tongues for 5 hours and we would join them to engage in the exercise. Our spouse won’t be able to beg for our children because our punishment would not damage their body but would always edify their spirit.

_We would change the word over our children, “in sin did my parents conceive me” to making our children tell their generation, “In righteousness did my parents conceived me”._

*We would validate the statement by getting married to the right spouse, practice courtship in purity no matter how our body do “gim gim” and avoid marriage crisis in the long run.*

IF YOU SEE MY BROTHER, PASTOR DANIEL OLAWANDE, TELL HIM THESE ARE WHAT I HAVE AGAINST HIM.

IF YOU SEE MY BROTHER, PASTOR DANIEL OLAWANDE, TELL HIM THESE ARE WHAT I HAVE AGAINST HIM.

Please, I won’t listen to any apologies or explanations on his behalf and I would be so factual to communicate my plight.

Often times, we have been mistaken to be “twin brothers” but he does not care to leave me as a “single brother”.

He accepted that I’m is brother on different occasions when he was asked but he didn’t tell me how to make a sister around me accept relationship proposal even when we see on different occasion.

He told me to always sustain the fire in my bones but he didn’t tell me to look for a sister that carries fire to be the bone of my bone as he did.

He told me the Lord would make “everything beautiful in his time’ but he didn’t tell me to look for a sister that his “beautiful all the time in everything” as he has found sister Nifemi.

He told me I need to be “prophetic to be impactful”, he didn’t tell me I needed to be “prophetic to be romantic”.

He told me “how necessary it is to be engaged with the things of God” but he didn’t tell me “how necessary it is to be engaged to the sister of God”.

Anytime we meet, he tells me about the “move of God in the public” but he didn’t tell me “the sister of God is moving him in the secret”. Please help me ask him, is that not “hypocrisy”.

The last time we saw, he addressed me as “boss” with the same mouth he uses to call sister Nifemi “Bae”. Thank God everyone knows who the Boss is between us and who the Bae is. Please, is that not “deceptive”.

Lol, you think I didn’t know that it was not flesh and blood that revealed the pattern of your proposal to you that day at RCCG Youth centre.

You think I didn’t know that it was the gift of discerning of spirits that you used to capture that song you sang before the proposal, “Ife re po, ife re po gan”.

Baba, you sly me big time and you know I’m really going to get back to you. Lol, from today I “dis-twin brother you oo” and don’t beg me.

I love you sir, thanks for always inspiring me. Been a long time coming Boss. Together we would be all that Christ has made us and do our part in heralding this generation.

I put my hands into yours and would stand by you till the end. You are my brother, my daddy is your daddy and importantly, my God is your God. Lol, I know some folks are expecting me to add “you spouse is my spouse” but I don’t want to die young. Our daddy (Daddy G.O) during the wedding anniversary told us that he can kill because of our Mummy (Mummy G.O) and I know definitely you can do the same with same believe and covering.

We are connected for life. Greater things are ahead of us. Let’s keep pressing and progressing. Our beginning is yet to began, we are still warming up.

Our minds are made up, our heads are up high and our eyes are on the goal. Everyday is a plus for us.

Thanks for checking on me this morning. I’m not taking it for granted neither did I deserve it, love made it all possible.

Now, I’m waiting for who will apologize or give an explanation on your behave.

THAT WE ARE SINGLE DOESN’T MEAN SOMETHING IS WRONG WITH US Part 1 BY MASTERPIECE DAVID OLAWADE

THAT WE ARE SINGLE DOESN’T MEAN SOMETHING IS WRONG WITH US Part 1 BY MASTERPIECE DAVID OLAWADE

The aim of this article is not to actually give an excuse for being single neither is it to advertise my status to attract people to my present condition but to encourage others who are also in my shoes even though I’m planning to come out soon. I’m about to upgrade to that realm too.

I know there are many out there who think something is wrong with them for being single till now even when it appears that many around them are engaged, married and raising their children. Don’t worry that Mr. or Miss right is coming your way soon. Be discerning, time and chance happens to it all. 

Often, the reason why you feel something is wrong with you is because you compare yourself with others and listen to what others are saying. 

As for me, parents, friends, pastors, fathers and mothers in the faith have asked me how long will you remain in this status without a clue?

Some told me that I’m really in a confused state, I told them confusion is an under statement because sometimes, everywhere looks like the way and being surrounded with wonderful great minds of like passion is not helping my matter at all (Winks).

They told me, “you need to get engaged as soon as possible to avoid the temptations of seeing beautiful sisters as you go about with the ministry”, I replied that “getting engaged does not stop other sisters from being beautiful anywhere I go”. I’m yet to get a prove that ministrations can stop one’s beauty or volumes of itineraries of a minister could close down beauty shops in areas where he would visit.

They said I’m getting older by the day, I responded by saying “I don’t need a prophet to tell me that, the rate of the growth of my beard lately is enough”. I also need a confirmation that being in a relationship increases or reduces a man’s age.

They brought to my knowledge that marriage is very important in one’s quest to fulfilling destiny, I responded from what my beloved sister, Dr. Bien Sufficient taught me over the years “purpose is greater than marriage and of what use is my marriage if I’m drowning in the ocean of purpose”. The greatest discovery of a man after knowing who God is to him is purpose not his spouse to be (though it’s also very important to discover your future partner).

They reminded of the fact that there is a vacuum in my heart that if not filled as soon as possible, I might misbehave. I smiled and responded by saying, “the vacuum has been there since I was born while haven’t I been mishaving and why is it that there are folks who has filled their vacuum yet still misbehaving?”.

They said I might not be able to control my body from doing “gish gish” again if I continue on this status. I said “getting engaged or getting married is not the remedy to stop this, it our natural body reaction”.

Folks, please, if you see or know my Miss Right, tell her I won’t tarry long again and if she hears my request she shouldn’t harden her heart.

To be continued, follow closely.

ON RELATIONSHIP: NOT THOSE THAT DEMAND YOU BUT THE ONE THAT DESERVES YOU, SIMPLE LIKE A.B.C.D BY MASTERPIECE DAVID OLAWADE


ON RELATIONSHIP: NOT THOSE THAT DEMAND YOU BUT THE ONE THAT DESERVES YOU, SIMPLE LIKE A.B.C.D BY MASTERPIECE DAVID OLAWADE

Some folks have asked me lately about proposing to someone and they get a “no” for an answer while others said what if the person they desired is not showing any attraction.

Hmmm! I have my reservations though and I’m not a relationship expert as it appears. I’m even yet to really experience one and if they knew I wasn’t engaged, they would have understood they met the wrong person on the subject. Lol, it appears like the blind leading the blind.

These are my reservations;

TO MY BROTHER

A. Anyone that rejects you the way you are out of God’s will as a man gives your future spouse (wife) the opportunity to appreciate God for bringing a wonderful man like you her way if you have discovered purpose and on the quest of fulfilling it. Be of good cheer.

TO MY SISTER

B. Anyman you desire but not showing attraction signals that he is not for you, your “Prince Charming” is on the way. Don’t attract someone’s so you won’t fall in the wrong hand. You don’t have to let someone who shouldn’t be occupy your heart, that’s not how to prove that humans are “matter” and can occupy space. The scripture “occupy till I come” is for our soon King Jesus, not someone “occupy till He(your prince charming) comes”.

TO ALL

C. Purpose is greater than Marriage and marriage is a choice. God allowed Adam to have the understanding of his purpose and the assignment before him before the need of a help meet. Why are so worried to discover your spouse when you are yet to discover purpose?

If young people give attention to “purpose discovery” the way they give attention to “spouse discovery”, the world would have been better than this. Many ideas, innovations and inventions have been lost on the journey of relationship and marriage.

If young people can listen to messages and attend seminars on purpose the way they listen to messages and attend seminars on relationship, the population of young people that are mediocres would have been negligible by now.

And to those changing fiance and fiancees like clothes, I tell you “weldone sir and weldone ma”, if you have been changing your approach to your purpose like this, you would have made a headway.

I would rather remain a single fulfilling purpose than get engaged to someone when I have disengaged from purpose. Lol, but I want to have beautiful wife and wonderful kids too that why I have been working tirelessly to fulfill purpose maximaxilly.

I want to be an asset to my spouse and I want her to be the same. I don’t want to be a liability neither do I want her to be. Enough of my generation raising confused singles that are graduating to confused partners without a direction for their lives.

To some, their duration of being in a relationship to see whether it would work is equivalent to the time of having a MBBS degree. They are also doing “house job” by sleeping around in the home of each other after over seven years of being in a “cult-ship”. Many are doing something productive with their years, you are reducing yourself with something you don’t understand. Look at my lips as I do this “Smhhh”.

My friend by wise, it’s only a fool that blames others or a factor for his ignorance.

TO THOSE ENGAGED

D. If God is in it, it will work.  At this juncture, I’m not speaking to category of people that tells me they are engaged but not sure whether the person really want to marry them. I have answered them often to continue fooling themselves as pleasure toys and waste bins.

When it’s on a godly basis with a purpose in view, it will work. Stop comparing who you are engaged with to someone else’s spouse. Whatever you desire from him or her, let the person know. Build what and who your spouse to be constructively with mutual agreement.

Let me stop here, before some people crucify me. I hope with this few point I have been able to convince you and not confuse you to stay focus on your purpose and get connected to the one who deserves you and not demand you.

Thanks for reading. I know it’s worth a while and it’s on relationship, you love it. Please if God has told you who my spouse would be please help me tell her, I will meet her soon someday. Sooner than expected, we would get to know ourselves. It’s not that I don’t desire to look for her now but I also desire to settle some things at this season of my life, she would appreciate and admire me the more for this.