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LETTER TO THAT BROTHER WHO CAN’T WAIT AGAIN TO LAVISH HIS LOVE ON THAT SISTER; TAKE A MOMENT TO CONSIDER THESE WORDS BY MASTERPIECE DAVID OLAWADE

LETTER TO THAT BROTHER WHO CAN’T WAIT AGAIN TO LAVISH HIS LOVE ON THAT SISTER; TAKE A MOMENT TO CONSIDER THESE WORDS BY MASTERPIECE DAVID OLAWADE

Dear Padi mi,

It gives me great delight again my brother to write you in anticipation to hear that Princess Charming you so desire has finally consented to your proposal.

I know you have been very proactive to prepare your body, soul and spirit for her with many actions that would make the relationship very promising. I guess if she was aware of these actions she may hasten in giving you a positive response.

Before you conclude on carrying out such plans, please, consider these words because her case may be different and her desires for that prospective relationship may not be what you have on mind for her.

Bobo, I know you have the list of gifts you plan sending to her momentarily. The make up kit for her convocation, the wrist watch for her birthday, the surprise pizza for lunch at work, the perfume after conniving with her best friend to know the brand she loves, the peplum gown of her favourite colour so you could see her express that alluring nature she gat, the engagement ring for the official marriage proposal and so on.

Don’t be surprised if all these gifts doesn’t really move her like your attention to help her activate and sharpen the “spiritual gifts” she is graced with because she is concerned about her within than her without.

You may be planning hanging out with her at different places; at shopping malls, the cinema, the beach, restaurant and the likes. Don’t consider her as “spiricoco” if she desires more that you hang out with her in the secret place in fellowship with the Holy Spirit than in public relaxation centers. Her best place could be the secret place and where she gets real cool may be the closet.

You may be planning to spice up her activities by introducing her to doing bodily exercises, playing of video games with her and so on. Don’t be worried bros., if all these activities are making her bored. What interests her more may be you introducing her to new patterns of spiritual dynamics and realities.

I know you have started visiting the gym since you overheard someone tell you many sisters love “six packs” and you discovered that what you have is “fat packs or one and half packs” at the moment. Please, keep doing the push ups but she may be concerned about your Spiritual stature than your physical muscle. What she desires may be “Mr. Spirit” rather than “Mr. Macho”.

Bros., I know you have started knowing and preparing to start taking those recipes to last longer in bed and to avoid erectile dysfunction so you could satisfy her on bed. Good decision sir but she desires more that you last longer in the prayer room than in the bed room. Yes, she likes the activities in the other room but she wants to see you more active in the upper room.

Of what use is your life if you desire and can be active for one hour in the bed room (other room) while you are sleeping in just 20 minutes in the prayer room (upper room)? Something must be wrong with you nigba yen.

Bobo, wise up, give attention to what matters to her so you won’t end up beating the air and looking stupid to her.

Don’t get me wrong sir, please do those activities you have on mind for her because they would also facilitate the relationship but give more attention to her concerns.

Love you brother, I’m concerned about your relationship.

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LETTER TO THAT BROTHER WHO IS CONVINCED BUT WANTS TO QUIT AFTER A RED CARD; THE SAME REFEREE THAT GAVE YOU A RED CARD CAN GIVE YOU A PENALTY IF YOU STEP UP YOUR GAME BY MASTERPIECE DAVID OLAWADE

LETTER TO THAT BROTHER WHO IS CONVINCED BUT WANTS TO QUIT AFTER A RED CARD; THE SAME REFEREE THAT GAVE YOU A RED CARD CAN GIVE YOU A PENALTY IF YOU STEP UP YOUR GAME BY MASTERPIECE DAVID OLAWADE.

Dear Bobo,

If you really follow CR7, the football legend, you could be familiar with the fact that a referee that once gave me red card later game him a penalty some day. Ronaldo accepted the red card, used the moment of suspension to restrategize and stepped up the game. When he was privileged again to be on the field with the same referee, the referee consented to his conviction in grand style.

It’s only a player that doesn’t have clear prospects in a tournament that would give up in a tournament that he is not playing again because he received a red card during a particular match.

Brother, I know you are downcast that the Bae gave you a red card after all your convictions and confirmations. I know you felt disappointed that you prayed and you were led to propose to her. I know you even saw her in your dreams but the only thing she could imagine that you deserve is a “NO”.

Padi, don’t go and drink “battery water” because you are still feeling embarrassed that she gave you a “NO” for that proposal. Don’t consider jumping into the well because you think you would not be able to withstand her friends getting to know about it.

If you consider doing any of these negative actions, don’t be surprised that if you die on her matter, another brother would still propose to her on the day of your funeral. It may even be during the ceremony. Calm down baba, something positive can still happen.

Before you make the decision to behave like some players do, don’t shout back at the referee during the match because she gave you a red card. She may make you feel the match is over for you at that moment but I want you to know that the tournament is still on and she is still in the tournament.

Maintain and cultivate a good relationship with her because she can start to develop interest in your prospect later.

Like VAR (Video Assistance Referee) at the world cup, the Holy Ghost is the VAR in this tournament and he can replay your matter to her again and she can get back to you or prepare for you to get another opportunity if you persist.

I know you cried after the red card as you comforted yourself with the words; “men don’t cry, they only shield tears”. Padi, whether it’s a cry or tears, I just know say water comot for your eyes.

I know you have started deleting her pictures on your phone. Yeye, as if you can erase her image from your heart. Lol, as you read this letter you can still see the pictures of this Princess Charming, she is freshly fair like “Mammador Groundnut Oil” and you still can’t tell why you can’t lose your feelings for her.

This moment of your suspension, use it to pray to win her heart, appreciate her and restrategize. Let her know, you won’t relent on her matter and the tournament is still on. This game is “WHO WANTS TO BE A BAETONAIRE”, don’t walk away. Use other live lines, call a friend or tell the Holy Ghost to remove things in her that is not making you the answer in her heart.

She actually saw your proposal as a hard tackle that deserves a red card hopefully because she never saw it coming, she wasn’t prepared for it or she never expected it from you. Don’t give up bro., she can still award you a penalty to compensate you of your desires.

If she eventually gives you a penalty, please don’t play the penalty to “throw in”. Don’t despise her concern and care for you. Take advantage of the chance positively, don’t use it as a pay back moment for giving you a red card earlier. Don’t try to prove that you don’t deserve a red card earlier by making her feel she is at your mercy. You didn’t only demand her, you deserve her and she does too.

LETTER TO MY BAE; I CAN BE IN LOVE WITH YOU AND STILL BE LUSTING AFTER YOU BY MASTERPIECE DAVID OLAWADE

LETTER TO MY BAE; I CAN BE IN LOVE WITH YOU AND STILL BE LUSTING AFTER YOU BY MASTERPIECE DAVID OLAWADE

Dear Honey pie,

I find it important to discuss some issues that are of high esteem to me at this time as it appears more and more as though we can’t do without ourselves. Please, if you truly love me, give attention to every word I would emphasize in this letter and your adherence to the instructions would be a great prove of your love for me.

Bae, please, remind me moments after moments when I come around you at times and places that aren’t convenient that God has put me in your garden with a forbidden fruit that I can’t taste for the now until God hands you legitimately to me to be your gardener.

Remind me that there are other trees in your garden that I can eat from for the now which includes; the tree of your wisdom, intercession, expertise, counsel and comfort but that tree of knowing you in that “glory” in the other room is forbidden for the now.

If I persist in our relationship that I don’t want to only know you in the upper room that I want a taste of you in the other room, please tell me you will report me to God in this manner as Jesus said of his disciples; “out of all the brothers you have given me O God, I have kept all except David the son of Fornication”.

Please threaten me with a “red card” if I desire to give you a hard tackle. Don’t cover up for my excesses or inadequacies. Slap me if you can because that your anointed slap on my cheek in such moment can save God’s call upon my head.

If we get to see and be alone, if I tell you I want to touch you, remind me that I have come to a mountain that can’t be touched. If I move closer again to you on the couch, say to me again; “touch not my anointed and do my prophetess no harm”. If I’m not relenting after you have quoted these scriptures, please permit the anointing to slap me to come upon you.

If I get angry for you to have slapped me in such moment, tell me; “since the day lust crept into my heart till now, our relationship suffereth violence and the violent taketh it by force”. The slap and the scripture would reset me back to my default configuration and feel free to report my strange acts to my spiritual father that you know.

Masterqueen, If we are together alone and I tell you I feel led to lay hands on you, please tell me I’m the one that needs deliverance from lust and rebuke that strange desire. Don’t listen to me no matter the dimension of anointing you see me manifest when I’m alone with you and I tell you I want to impart you where no third party is.

I have a secret agenda if I tell you I want to do impartation for you in the bed room, bae wise up oo. Pray that God exposes and reveals every hidden agenda I have towards you both the good ones and the bad ones.

If I’m confident to tell you, I want to touch your body, be bold to tell me your body is the temple of the Holy Ghost. If I tell you the Holy Ghost lives inside of me and I want to touch you, tell me at such moment that it’s lust you are seeing in me and not the Holy Ghost.

Don’t give me a mind when I tell you eyes should not see neither should it come to the heart of men what I had prepared for you as your lover in the secret place if you follow me. Tell me you can behold in open face like in a glass wherever I have prepared for you and God has also prepared something better for us when we get married.

If I tell you, I wish to be greeting you with a holy kiss as recorded in the scriptures, remind me about the account of Judas whose kiss on Jesus became an issue because it was done in the wrong place, for a wrong motive and at the wrong time.

If I tell you that “my case is different” also threaten me by saying; “my red card will be different” because I will it for committing the foul of kissing you while we are still courting.

Please don’t response to my chats or voice notes when I sing these songs to you; “draw me close to you, never let me fall” or respond in this manner; “if you want to fall, fall alone and not on me or with me”. If I also sing this to you late in the night; “I just want to be where you are, dwelling daily in your presence”, tell me; where you are now, I can’t be there and I can’t get to be around you daily for the now.

Bae, don’t let these my strange actions discourage you or doubt my love for you. I will try to avoid them from happening but if it eventually happens, please do the necessary. I know there will be moments where I feel like touching and cuddling you but I will try to fight this good fight of faith to make purity our watch word in our relationship and I won’t bridge my commitment in upholding it.

My love, I know there will be moments when we are together that your own body will be doing “gim gim” towards me too. Please, try and curtail it oo. Don’t let me know and pretend that you are fine because I may just be waiting for you to throw yourself to me at such a time to take the advantage.

Remember, in our society, women mostly get the blame, you can ask the woman caught in the act if adultery that was brought to Jesus. I believe it takes two people to commit adultery, I wonder why they spared the man after they were caught in such act.

This proves the point that, purity in our relationship to a large extend is determined by you as I also strive to play my part.

Bae, remind me that we will one day tell our children and generation how we prepared ourselves for our marriage. We won’t tell our story as a lesson for them to avoid our mistakes because everything done in the secret would have to be revealed in the opened and we would be hypocritical if we tell them to do what we couldn’t do in abstinence and purity.

Please, tell me of a time after we now have access to know ourselves anytime, anywhere and anyhow that I can be around you for days and not feel like touching you because I would have been used to it and at that time what would sustain our love would not only be sex.

I’m still finding it difficulty to believe it that I will be around you under such hospice and spare you, I’m anticipating such a time someday sha. Maybe I don’t get it, I’m trying to fathom it that you will be under my “ministration” in the other room and I won’t stir the anointing to lay hands on you and impart you saying “such as I have, I give you”. We shall see, only time would tell.

I see you dear, I love you for you.
Your soon to be Boo.
#AManOfOneBae

Senior Advocate (Prophetic Romance Constituency), Association Of Baeless Single Brothers Of Nigeria.

DON’T LET THE HONEYMOON END BY WARI EKI

DON’T LET THE HONEYMOON END BY WARI EKI

(Rev 2:1-7)

At the beginning of every relationship, there is what is referred to as “the honeymoon period”. This is the point where the love is new, sparks are flying, everything is perfect, and they cant get enough of each other.

Showing their love is as easy as breathing and their love is the most important thing in their lives. Sometime down the line however, things begin to cool down. The love is still there, but the flames that marked the beginning of the relationship have settled down into gentle embers. They have to work to fan these embers to keep the fire burning, if not it goes out completely.

They may still care for each other and do all the right things, but the fervor and intensity that marked the beginning of their relationship is gone. At this stage, problems start in the relationship, and ultimately, it comes to an end. I cannot count how many relationships I have seen end because “the spark died”.

The church in Ephesus had the same problem. They still did all the right things. They worked hard, did not tolerate evil, suffered for Christ, but in the midst of all of this, Jesus wasn’t happy. What was the problem? Jesus said, “you don’t love me or each other AS YOU DID AT FIRST” (V4, NLT).

He wasn’t saying they didn’t love Him, He knew they did. His problem was that the intensity of their love had dimmed. Their actions were good, but He was more concerned about the state of their hearts. He was saddened by the fact that their love had grown cold.

This shows that even if we’re going through the motions and working for God, He is looking into our hearts and assessing the intensity of our love for Him because in the end, that is what truly matters.

The solution for relationships in which the sparks have died is usually along the lines of “remember why you fell in love in the first place, and take out time to do the things you did at the beginning of the relationship for each other”.

Jesus gives a similar solution to the church here. He says, (v5);

Remember from what height you have fallen: think back to how it was in the beginning when you first gave your life to Him. How much you craved and longed for Him, how you always wanted to spend time with Him, how you couldn’t get enough of Him.

Repent: repentance isn’t a one-off act; the entire life of a believer is to be one of repentance. It’s a change of mind from being self-dependent to being God-dependent. It is a conscious decision to put God back at the center of our lives and to stop looking elsewhere for our sense of purpose and fulfillment.

Do the works you did previously: the things you did in the beginning, begin to do again. Begin to read your bible again; begin to pray again. Begin to love again.

Most importantly, we must continually fan the flames of our love for Him, and work at not becoming complacent in our walk with Him.

HAWKERS BY RABO ISRAEL

Show love to a hawker today as you step out today. I have been privileged overtime to converse with quite a number in the market places, on transits and so on. I discovered they have dreams too, they desire to be loved and desire a change of story.

Many of them eat more than they gain but they have to find a way around their survival. They are not lazy, they are diligent and committed to what circumstances has turned them to. Among them would have been great medical doctors, entrepreneurs, CEOs, barristers and so on.

Don’t distain them, don’t insult them and don’t add to their worries.

As you step out today, if you are able to reach out to any who is an orphan and desires to be educated, please do well to reach me. I have a link to a foundation that can help them. Together we could rescue a dream and save a live. It begins with us.

Read the article below of my beloved brother to spur you to the task today.

HAWKERS BY RABO ISRAEL

They’ve chosen to hustle, they signed a deal not to beg but to eat from their sweat.

Since they have the ability they’ve vowed not to be a liability and to steal no one’s property, they thrive amidst harassment.

You see them racing after cars, not for medals but to make ends meet. Come rain, come shine, they are always on post.

When the day is bright and even in the night they roam the road on an empty stomach, putting a mask of smile as they shove their goods at you.

They endure your scornful looks, never retaliate your insult, they always comply when they are chased away.

They’ve been tagged a nuisance though I call them hustlers. When you drive past them you may only see a bread seller without knowing he is also a breadwinner.

They’ve been labeled and treated like dirt, without hesitation you will choose your pet over them. Even oshomole told them to go and die.

They put their lives at risk, they never say never. They have big dreams, instead of sleeping they are awake chasing those dreams. Think big, start small is their logo.

I know you always see them on Highways, I need no soothsayer to know you’ve never said Hi. You wouldn’t do it even if you were high.

After reading this I hope you give it a try, try to say hi and make them smile. You might be the only one that have greeted them for that day.

THAT WE PLAY DOES NOT MEAN WE DON’T HAVE PAIN: WHEN WE ARE DOWN, WE REMEMBER GOD IS UP BY MASTERPIECE DAVID OLAWADE

THAT WE PLAY DOES NOT MEAN WE DON’T HAVE PAIN: WHEN WE ARE DOWN, WE REMEMBER GOD IS UP BY MASTERPIECE DAVID OLAWADE

Though we appear in nice attires but that’s not the entire worth of our lives. We share the pictures but that’s not in full pictures who we are and where we are.
Friends, what makes the difference is our decisions and response to the circumstances around us. The circumstances that can’t move us will definitely move away from us. Even when our pockets are empty, we have a confidence that our heads are not empty. We have thoughts, insights and ideas money can’t buy.
Like everyone around us feel, we have pains but we make it our play moments. We cry sometimes in the closet but we rejoice in the open. We have made a decision not to allow our pain rob us of our joy. Our joy is not a function of the circumstances around us but our decisions.
Often times, things around us don’t appear the way we want it to be but we have promised ourselves to behave the way we want to be despite the situation.
We also feel like giving up but what has always kept us is our understanding that God is up there and in us supplying us strength to hold on day by day.
Our lives are accounts containing the deposits of God for others to withdraw from. We are conscious of this that’s why we have made ourselves  accessible everywhere to everyman. When they see us, they see answers to some of their prayers, solutions to their challenges, healings to their illnesses, smiles to their cry, relieves to their pains, miracles to their seeming impossible situations and helps for their need.
We won’t deceive the people around us to think all that we are and have is for us alone, we would bring them to the consciousness that we are here and all that we are is for humanity to benefit from. So if we are successful in a conquest, we would help others to be too. If we attain an height, we would lay down our expertise as a rope to draw others up to the altitudes we are and even beyond us.
We have no competition in view, our focus is competence by complementing others. Who we are, where we are, how we are and what we are is a privilege, it could have been anyone else. Our greatest privilege is helping others to be all that they could be.
We are wired and programmed to love others irrevocably not only by what they do to us, but by what we would do to them. We have decided long ago to love rather than hate, we choose friendship instead of enmity, patience instead of wondering about, smile rather than cry, complement rather than jealousy, celebrate others rather than envying others. That’s how we roll.

WOW!!! SO YOU WANT TO KILL YOURSELF BECAUSE SOMEONE DOES NOT LOVE OR APPROVE OF YOU? BY Dr. BIEN SUFFICIENT

WOW!!! SO YOU WANT TO KILL YOURSELF BECAUSE SOMEONE DOES NOT LOVE OR APPROVE OF YOU? BY Dr. BIEN SUFFICIENT

Now this is the most ridiculous thing I have heard in a long time. Thank God I was able to intervene before it happened. I am writing this article today because I feel this article might just help many others who might be going through similar situations now.

I met this very beauty young lady, a young 18yrs old girl who has attempted committing suicide twice and failed and was about making the third attempt before I met her. I could not think of anything that will make this beautiful little girl to be so bent on taking her own life.

I was so heartbroken when I heard it, that I decided to go out of my way to work with her. It wasn’t long for me to discover the sweet personality she had. She was very intelligent, smart, calm, loving and gentle. I fell in love with her personality and could not believe that such a wonder little girl you will think have everything going for her will want to end her own life.

She was a straight A-student, yet she had a terrible low self-esteem. Always seeking for approval and trying to please everyone that most of the people in her life began to take advantage of her. When I got talking to her, I discovered she never really got the affirmation she needed from her parents who were more interested in her academic performs than her feelings and desires to feel loved and be appreciated.

According to her, she has to be so focused on her academics because that is the only way she can get any praise from her parents. She became very good with her studies but yet was very empty on the inside. Her friends made fun of her, that she was a book worm and never had a social life. Because of their constant teasing, she became withdrawn into herself and never really had friends. She was an object of fun among her peers and as such was always by herself. One day she was approached by one of the boys in her school who professed an undying love for her.

It didn’t take time before she fell helpless in love with this boy. As long as she was concern, for the first time she is really meeting someone who truly loved her. Unknown to her was the fact that this relationship was leading no way. She became so attached to the boy emotionally and psychologically. She did practically everything for this boy she was in love with. But the boy dumped her for her classmate.

This left her so chattered that she believed there was no reason to live anymore as there was nothing to live for. This led her to attempting suicide twice and was about attempting the third one before I meant her. I pulled her close and began to show her love like she never knew was possible. I talked to her about self-love, the reason for life, discovering purpose, the ultimate love of God for her and before long she was delivered from the suicidal spirit and low self-esteem.

Today she has become an agent of change, making so much impact in the lives of other young people, her peers and adults alike. Her story has liberated so many other people who were suffering from the plague of low self-esteem. It is rather unfortunate but true that most times parents are the ones that push their kids into this condition unknowingly. I want to appeal to every parent, please have time for your children. Give them the affirmation they need and show them you love them unconditionally.

And to my young people, no one or circumstance is worth taking your life for. Learn to love yourself and know that you do not need the approval of anyone to be what God has created you to be in life. And above all, God loves you unconditionally and no one can love you like He does.