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LETTER TO THAT BROTHER WHO IS CONVINCED BUT WANTS TO QUIT AFTER A RED CARD; THE SAME REFEREE THAT GAVE YOU A RED CARD CAN GIVE YOU A PENALTY IF YOU STEP UP YOUR GAME BY MASTERPIECE DAVID OLAWADE

LETTER TO THAT BROTHER WHO IS CONVINCED BUT WANTS TO QUIT AFTER A RED CARD; THE SAME REFEREE THAT GAVE YOU A RED CARD CAN GIVE YOU A PENALTY IF YOU STEP UP YOUR GAME BY MASTERPIECE DAVID OLAWADE.

Dear Bobo,

If you really follow CR7, the football legend, you could be familiar with the fact that a referee that once gave me red card later game him a penalty some day. Ronaldo accepted the red card, used the moment of suspension to restrategize and stepped up the game. When he was privileged again to be on the field with the same referee, the referee consented to his conviction in grand style.

It’s only a player that doesn’t have clear prospects in a tournament that would give up in a tournament that he is not playing again because he received a red card during a particular match.

Brother, I know you are downcast that the Bae gave you a red card after all your convictions and confirmations. I know you felt disappointed that you prayed and you were led to propose to her. I know you even saw her in your dreams but the only thing she could imagine that you deserve is a “NO”.

Padi, don’t go and drink “battery water” because you are still feeling embarrassed that she gave you a “NO” for that proposal. Don’t consider jumping into the well because you think you would not be able to withstand her friends getting to know about it.

If you consider doing any of these negative actions, don’t be surprised that if you die on her matter, another brother would still propose to her on the day of your funeral. It may even be during the ceremony. Calm down baba, something positive can still happen.

Before you make the decision to behave like some players do, don’t shout back at the referee during the match because she gave you a red card. She may make you feel the match is over for you at that moment but I want you to know that the tournament is still on and she is still in the tournament.

Maintain and cultivate a good relationship with her because she can start to develop interest in your prospect later.

Like VAR (Video Assistance Referee) at the world cup, the Holy Ghost is the VAR in this tournament and he can replay your matter to her again and she can get back to you or prepare for you to get another opportunity if you persist.

I know you cried after the red card as you comforted yourself with the words; “men don’t cry, they only shield tears”. Padi, whether it’s a cry or tears, I just know say water comot for your eyes.

I know you have started deleting her pictures on your phone. Yeye, as if you can erase her image from your heart. Lol, as you read this letter you can still see the pictures of this Princess Charming, she is freshly fair like “Mammador Groundnut Oil” and you still can’t tell why you can’t lose your feelings for her.

This moment of your suspension, use it to pray to win her heart, appreciate her and restrategize. Let her know, you won’t relent on her matter and the tournament is still on. This game is “WHO WANTS TO BE A BAETONAIRE”, don’t walk away. Use other live lines, call a friend or tell the Holy Ghost to remove things in her that is not making you the answer in her heart.

She actually saw your proposal as a hard tackle that deserves a red card hopefully because she never saw it coming, she wasn’t prepared for it or she never expected it from you. Don’t give up bro., she can still award you a penalty to compensate you of your desires.

If she eventually gives you a penalty, please don’t play the penalty to “throw in”. Don’t despise her concern and care for you. Take advantage of the chance positively, don’t use it as a pay back moment for giving you a red card earlier. Don’t try to prove that you don’t deserve a red card earlier by making her feel she is at your mercy. You didn’t only demand her, you deserve her and she does too.

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THE LIVING THERAPY; DO YOU WANT TO LIVE LONG OR DIE LONG BY MASTERPIECE DAVID OLAWADE

THE LIVING THERAPY; DO YOU WANT TO LIVE LONG OR DIE LONG BY MASTERPIECE DAVID OLAWADE

“Death isn’t the greatest loss in life. The greatest loss is what dies in us while we live”.- Norman Cousins

If I’m asked; “at what age do people really die more?”, I will say; “between the age of 20 to 30 but are buried later at old age”.

Many started dying at the teenage age between the transition to adulthood where they experience being left in the coma of indecision, peer pressure, wrong counsels, poor parenting and negative influences.

Very few are actually resuscitated from this coma as they have the chance to live again and get things right while others are left in this disheartening condition till they finally get to meet a blow that would finally take life from them.

Their eyes stopped working the day they lost their vision, their heart stopped pumping immediately they lost their passion; their Central Nervous System started having complications when they can’t trace their ambitions and harness their potentials.

Of what use is a life if he doesn’t understand the time he is living in?

Of what use is a life who has lost the purpose of existence?

Of what use is a life who has no sense of relevance and whose absence is not felt?

As I walk from house to house, across the streets, visit communities and graced events, I have seen a great company of dead cadavers who don’t know their obituaries is that image they see in the mirror when they are yet to discover purpose and do the necessaries in being who God has made them.

Some have given in to embalmment processes of trying to prosper out of their purpose or shortchanged their desires with something just to make a living. The real sense of their lives has been taken away from them and ignorance has been the epidemy of this alarming death rate.

So disappointing today that many organizations some folks found themselves have become their mortuaries, some jobs have become cemeteries while some seemingly attractive opportunities have given many the privilege to attend their own funeral. The undertakers carrying their caskets are their so called “friends”.

Many died because they didn’t survive the accident of their nation’s economic situations, wrong spouse, negative influences, disappointment, choice of wrong carreer and so on. Some were given death sentences by the people around them while others by their hands made decisions to take life from themselves.

I believe some people don’t have to be addressed as “late” after they are buried because their legacies still out live them. I also feel the use of “late” for a deceased means, “the individual is dead for long but late to be buried”.

Men like Myles Munroe, Billy Graham aren’t late because their legacies live on while those individuals who died with their potentials untapped died earlier before they are buried.

Not everyone who died at age later than 70 lived long if they don’t fulfill purpose. It is better to say they “died long”.

A man starts dying the day when his purpose, passion and potentials can’t find expression. Are you among the living on this prospect? Do you want to live long or die long? Do you want to be addressed as late after your demised on earth?

LETTER TO THAT BAE WHO WANTS TO GIVE THAT BROTHER A RED CARD BY MASTERPIECE DAVID OLAWADE

LETTER TO THAT BAE WHO WANTS TO GIVE THAT BROTHER A RED CARD BY MASTERPIECE DAVID OLAWADE

Why are you so quick to bring out the red card? Hope is not that brother with the “red car” that you are envisaging that he would come and propose to you someday. Bae, he may tarry long and never come, by then you would have missed this one and those that would come that time may not be an option but you will see them as a rescue mission.

Why are you so quick to tell him you are still praying when you knew you will never take his matter to God because you have already made your decision from Day 1. Please, stop this prayer warrior camouflage approach and let the Bobo know his faith oo.

Why are you saying you are not convinced when you know you are really confused because you never imagined such a brother coming to you.

The reason why you want to answer that brother with a “No” is because he doesn’t appear like the brother you are envisaging and you already have a standard for your future boo.

Sister, stop comparing that brother with “Masterpiece” ooo. He may not dress like Masterpiece who is still on “Legedes Benz” and using “solé airways” (a moving motor park) for his journeys while the brother loves to appear on casual with his Lexus SUV.

Don’t compare that brother with David Olawade who has a sense of humour and can write romantic letters. The brother may appear gentle and not be expressive but he can learn to be that kind of man you desire if you give him your consent.

The brother may look too spiritual and you have made up your mind not to go out with a SU. Remember, he won’t be a SU in the “other room” oo. That he always talk about the upper room doesn’t mean he doesn’t mind the other room when you give him the chance, only time would tell.

Don’t be deceived because he didn’t propose to you like your colleague’s boo did to her. What matters more is the end, not the approach.

Don’t judge that brother or his spiritual life because he doesn’t appear on the posters, what is more important is he appears in the portals of heaven and he is gaining ascendancy momentarily.

He may not appear before men often to minister as you desire of a boo but be sure he appears before God often to touch more spiritual realities. Remember, there are lots of men who minister to people but maltreat their spouses.

You may not get to see him in many events that you desire to see him, be sure he is not missing in the secret place. You may not see him with the microphone but he is called to do something in God’s agenda and the microphone may not be his own tool.

Aunty, if you want to give him a red card, please, give him on time. Don’t use him and keep him waiting to fill in the gap as you anticipate your desired “Prince Charming”.

Don’t also think of giving him a red card because you are afraid and concerned about how you can cope with the height he has attained in life, ministry and career. Before he considered you among others, he must have thought of that and he saw something in you that you may not be conscious of. See it as a privilege and an opportunity to brace up and learn.

You can make your decision now ma.

*Much love,*
_Legislator and Minister of Affairs, Association Of Baeless Single Brothers Of Nigeria,_
*Masterpiece David Olawade*

LETTER TO THAT BROTHER WHO WANTS TO PROPOSE TO THAT BAE SOON; BEFORE YOU PROCEED CONSIDER THESE BY MASTERPIECE DAVID OLAWADE

LETTER TO THAT BROTHER WHO WANTS TO PROPOSE TO THAT BAE SOON; BEFORE YOU PROCEED CONSIDER THESE BY MASTERPIECE DAVID OLAWADE

It’s not enough to see visions because I will ask you if she is the only lady you have ever seen in your dreams over time and will you propose to all of them because you saw them?

It’s not enough that your friends and mentors have confirmed her as your prospective future wife, that you are convinced doesn’t mean she can’t be confused and her consent determines the game.

It’s not enough that she is inquisitive to know every thing about you, she might be doing it from a free heart, you may be the one giving meaning to it.

That she is checking and following your social media status doesn’t mean she will be the one to change your marital status to “engaged”.

She may introduce you to her friends many times but she is not seeing you as the man she wants to introduce you the right time to her parents as her Mr. Right.

Don’t mistake her desire to spend and share her time with you to her desire to spend her lifetime with you.

She may always love to engage you with discussions but never imagined to engage you with her emotions.

That your body is doing “gim gim” around her is not a sign to see her as your spouse, it may be as a result of you lusting over her cleavages. What you need at this time may not be a relationship with her but a deliverance from her.

Bobo, I know you want to eagerly tell her how you are feeling for her. I know you have written down names you want to call her, poems you want to read to her and songs you want to sing for her. I know you want to cuddle her and famz around her. I know you want to have eventful moment with her to share memories together.

Padi, I know you want to leave your colleagues in the “BAELESS ASSOCIATION OF SINGLE BROTHERS” and upgrade to join your colleagues that are engaged. I know you want to do morning and evening devotion with her on the phone. I know age is not on your side as your bald head and beards are becoming obvious by the day.

Take a moment to have a rethink. The words in this letter will either catalyze you to take action on time and terminate the whole process.

Please, I want you to know that “red card” is real and “red card” is not a respecter of persons, anointing or age. If she is already giving you some “yellow card” signals by her late dispositions to your sudden desire to get closer to her, don’t commit the next foul because that can cost you a straight “red card”.

I want you to know that many sisters will continue to respect you as a friend and would remain faithful to your relationship if you don’t eventually take this step of declaring your manifesto when you aren’t sure.

Truly that sister likes you and she is eyeing you but she loves you as a friend. Truly she is comfortable around you but she would only be comfortable with you as a friend.

If you cross your boundary, it may result to a relationship bandit oo. That you are her spiritual father or mentor doesn’t mean she will automatically play to your emotional drama.

If you think it’s her beauty that is attracting you to her, hope you know getting engaged to her doesn’t stop other ladies from being beautiful and you will also acknowledge their beauty.

If it’s her cleavage or physique that is turning you on, you will still see diverse “manifestations” of it on other ladies ooo. Don’t allow that be your conviction, you can wake up someday to discover that the physique is gone and the boobs are sagging.

Don’t think you can use her as the solution for your cravings for sex, research has shown that adultery is at the higher rate than fornication. Speak to your hormone sir, that “hard marking and tackle” you desire to give that sister can wait and be sure she is the one that deserves it.

Bobo, if you know you are convinced enough, don’t tarry oo else someone overtakes you and take your possession from you. Please, make your intention known on time.

Much love,
Legislator and Minister of Affairs, Association Of Baeless Single Brothers Of Nigeria,
Masterpiece David Olawade.

LETTER TO MY DAUGHTER: PLEASE GIVE ATTENTION TO MY WORDS BY MASTERPIECE DAVID OLAWADE

LETTER TO MY DAUGHTER: PLEASE GIVE ATTENTION TO MY WORDS BY MASTERPIECE DAVID OLAWADE

Dear Masterprincess,

I won’t get tired of telling you “I love you” my dear and when those my other sons from another father try to get your head on by telling the same thing, you will be familiar with the statement because I sing it to your ears on daily basis.

I won’t force you to choose a career or discover a purpose, I will only try to connect you to He who has predestined you for a purpose, made you in His own image and knew you before you were formed in your mother’s womb. When you get to know this personality then you can make your inquiries and see reasons to be acquainted to Him.

Dear, I’m just like a watch dog over you, you and I will give account someday to this personality that predestined you for a purpose and made you in His image. I beg your pardon, do well to listen to my instructions and directives as you grow to becoming all that God has made you to be.

Don’t just give your life to him because I told you reasons to do so. Please, see reasons and be convinced before making such decision. If some folks tell you that living such life for Him is boring, tell them they are yet to taste the real one. The Holy Scriptures tells us, “taste and see that the Lord is good”, I’m a testimony to this.

There are decisions to make with ulterior motives but there is one that comes with ultimate motive. This decision is not a call to being religious or practicing doctrines, I will emphasize this when we discuss more in person.

Don’t give in to anyone who tells you that wearing ear rings, necklace, make ups, trousers, attaching braids or weavons would send you to hell. If you are comfortable with it in modesty please do my dear, your father is not condemning you and I’m sure your mum won’t. I will even buy them for you if you want me to.

Don’t listen to your friends who would tell you to “dress to kill”. From the intention they asked you to engage “to kill” they want you to partner with the devil on his mission; “to kill, steal and destroy”. Realistically, you end up killing guys in lust with such outfits but they also wound you too by their actions in formication.

Be careful, when they tell you; “you are hot” because they may be telling you in actual sense that you are radiating the heat from hell with your attire.

Don’t let them give you the compliment; “slay queen” by attires that exposes your cleavages, I will present to you a better and a more excellent way to slay guys.

It is called; “slaying in the Holy Ghost”. This kind makes those possessed to vibrate and fall at your appearance in decency. Don’t worry my dear, your mum will teach you more of this because she is also a “slay mama” in the actual context.

If any of friends tells you abstinence and keeping your virginity is archaic, run from her because she is your enemy. Those that lose theirs, lost it due to ignorance and negligence. Many are still feeling the hurts and pains till date and want you to experience similar occurrence.

If they tell you “virginity is lack of opportunity”, tell them you are proud to miss such opportunity to misbehave and live in regrets. Such miss is worth it my princess.

Don’t let any man touch you in a way that isn’t convenient. Any man that is not married to you that licks your lips or any part of your body is not kissing you but tasting you.

Don’t start any relationship at the early stage of your life when you don’t have plan for marriage soon. Don’t try “dating”, prepare to do courtship. Courtship shouldn’t be a Bsc certificate for 4years or MBBS for 7years, there are better things to do with your life. Use the early stage of your life to court your purpose and get married to your goals.

Don’t be deceived by engagement ring that has no marriage in view. Such ring becomes key holder in your finger or handcuff for life imprisonment. Connect with a guy that deserves you not the one that demands you and I will be so glad to hand you over to him in right earnest.

Don’t join folks to do the “twerking”, if you check their lives they are trekking with their future and trending in immorality.

Read and digest these for the now my dear, I will send you other directives as time goes on. I’m anticipating your arrival as I continue in making plans to do the necessary to give you the best life available for you here.

Your mum and I love you forever my princess.

Your soon to be Father,
Masterpiece David Olawade.

NO ONE IS DOING YOU A FAVOUR WHEN YOU ARE MEETING THEIR NEEDS BY MASTERPIECE DAVID OLAWADE

NO ONE IS DOING YOU A FAVOUR WHEN YOU ARE MEETING THEIR NEEDS BY MASTERPIECE DAVID OLAWADE

Briskly this morning I visited the bank to complete a transaction as I desired to get it done on time so as to attend to other schedules for the day.

I walked into the banking hall, followed the usual procedures as I queued till I was able to get through to the bank cashier. I approached her with the required documents including my national voters’ card.

Immediately the cashier discovered the transaction I was about to complete would require her making photocopies of the required documents, her countenance changed because the machine at her counter wasn’t working.

To my amazing, she spoke to be in a way I couldn’t imagined, out of fury she said; “go upstair, meet the security personnel to make photocopies of the documents”.

I was filled with awe as I spoke to myself as if I’m from the state I’m yet to visit, “what the heck is wrong with this folk?” and also spoke from the locality I’m from and I’m; “no be only you sabi vex or para, I fit para for you too oo. If no be say today na Monday, I for give you back as he dey hot”.

I couldn’t imagine a bank cashier sending me on an errand with such mannerism. I quickly put myself together with thousands of words and thoughts on my mind. I didn’t want to create any drama and didn’t want to waste my time in the banking hall so I proceeded upstair.

Short story, I met the security personnel and he went to an office to make the photocopies of the documents. I returned to the cashier and got the transaction done.

The focal of this experiences is that, the security personnel and the cashier desired me to tell them “thank you” after the transaction. I made them understand they didn’t deserve my thank you as far as I’m concerned.

I’m the one that deserve their thank you for sending me on an errand when they aren’t doing me a favour for that because the transaction I did was also favouring the bank and they are doing their job by attending to me even when I have to do part of their job for them by running errand for them.

I’m always surprised when I hear folks tell me what they go through when they go for job interviews and their employers tell them “we don’t need you here, we are only helping you not to be jobless”. In the long run, when they get employed, they use them like a waste bin.

I’m always wowed when I hear about what folks go through as an employee. Someone told me of getting a bank marketing job where she has to meet up with a target of about 50 people monthly to open a bank account with millions of naira to get a required salary.

The target seems almost impossible and I asked her, “do you think your employer can meet this target themselves”. I told her, “You are jobless and enslaved”. One’s job shouldn’t be a punishment or a burden. I had people use their body to stay on a job, what a NONSENSE in a capital letter. You have been priced for cheap enough, discover yourself and know your worth.

Listen to me program convener, you aren’t only doing that your minister a favour for inviting him or giving him honorarium, he is also meeting a need and he deserves a level of appreciation.

I’m encouraging you young minister, when you get to some platforms, when they ridiculed you, failed to receive you well, give you honorarium that isn’t even commensurate to your transport fare after the stress and preparations for coming, your pay day is closer than you can imagine.

A time is coming when you will be reaching out more to those that deserve your worth or value and not only those that demand it, it’s not pride but it’s a process and stage.

A time is coming when those that were not there when you were depositing and investing into your personal life and development will be ashamed to withdraw from it due to their excesses and selfishness.

Listen to me, Mr. or Miss or Mrs Ego, you are not doing that your spouse, fiancé or fiancée a Favour for choosing them ahead of others or saying a “YES” to their proposal, they are also doing you a favour. In all thy getting, get sense.

SEE REASONS TO SMILE TODAY: IT DOESN’T ONLY LOOK GOOD ON YOU, IT’S A MEDICINE TO YOUR HEALTH AND THAT OF OTHERS BY MASTERPIECE DAVID OLAWADE

SEE REASONS TO SMILE TODAY: IT DOESN’T ONLY LOOK GOOD ON YOU, IT’S A MEDICINE TO YOUR HEALTH AND THAT OF OTHERS BY MASTERPIECE DAVID OLAWADE

Sometimes, when I’m privileged to counsel some folks, when they narrated their ordeals and experiences, I smile from within me as I say to myself “your challenge is more interesting, I wish we could exchange with mine at that moment”. l always remain calm to help see to reasons why they should be of good cheer and tell them likely ways to overcome the challenges as we pray together.

Often times, it appears as though the person that counsels needs more “counsels” from within. The person that solves problems for others has many personal problems that remain unsolved. The person that motivates others may lack motivation himself but he is faithful and staying positive on what lies ahead.

There is always a reason to smile. It doesn’t matter how the circumstances may appear, it is our reactions and dispositions to it that makes the difference.

When we think about our present challenges and want to get moody, let’s replay from our memories moments of good times that God has helped us to experience.

That we play does not mean we don’t have pains too, that we smile in public doesn’t mean we don’t groan in secret. That we laugh with our company doesn’t mean we don’t shed tears with our loneliness.

It’s not a fake life sir, it is the reality of the consciousness that; better days are ahead of us, challenges don’t last, every day is a plus for us and we are learning from all experiences.

Please folks, if you are privileged to be around those in pains even if your present challenges is more than theirs, render a helping hand with your smile, attention and resource. You can be a channel to relief someone of their griefs and pains.

If you can’t help some due to one reason or the other, please don’t add to their pains and challenges by laughing at them or speaking depressing words to them.

Your transformation is the transformation of others. Your motivations can help someone out of his state of depression. Your smile can wipe away someone’s tears. Your play can heal someone’s pain. Your resources can help someone’s poverty.

I love you and believe in your future. Together we would stand to be all that we can be.

Good morning Fam, see reasons to smile today. It does not only look good on you, it’s a medicine to your health.

Listen to me, Masterpiece is smiling at you as you read. Please smile back at me.