LETTER TO THAT BROTHER WHO WANTS TO PROPOSE TO THAT BAE SOON; BEFORE YOU PROCEED CONSIDER THESE BY MASTERPIECE DAVID OLAWADE
It’s not enough to see visions because I will ask you if she is the only lady you have ever seen in your dreams over time and will you propose to all of them because you saw them?
It’s not enough that your friends and mentors have confirmed her as your prospective future wife, that you are convinced doesn’t mean she can’t be confused and her consent determines the game.
It’s not enough that she is inquisitive to know every thing about you, she might be doing it from a free heart, you may be the one giving meaning to it.
That she is checking and following your social media status doesn’t mean she will be the one to change your marital status to “engaged”.
She may introduce you to her friends many times but she is not seeing you as the man she wants to introduce you the right time to her parents as her Mr. Right.
Don’t mistake her desire to spend and share her time with you to her desire to spend her lifetime with you.
She may always love to engage you with discussions but never imagined to engage you with her emotions.
That your body is doing “gim gim” around her is not a sign to see her as your spouse, it may be as a result of you lusting over her cleavages. What you need at this time may not be a relationship with her but a deliverance from her.
Bobo, I know you want to eagerly tell her how you are feeling for her. I know you have written down names you want to call her, poems you want to read to her and songs you want to sing for her. I know you want to cuddle her and famz around her. I know you want to have eventful moment with her to share memories together.
Padi, I know you want to leave your colleagues in the “BAELESS ASSOCIATION OF SINGLE BROTHERS” and upgrade to join your colleagues that are engaged. I know you want to do morning and evening devotion with her on the phone. I know age is not on your side as your bald head and beards are becoming obvious by the day.
Take a moment to have a rethink. The words in this letter will either catalyze you to take action on time and terminate the whole process.
Please, I want you to know that “red card” is real and “red card” is not a respecter of persons, anointing or age. If she is already giving you some “yellow card” signals by her late dispositions to your sudden desire to get closer to her, don’t commit the next foul because that can cost you a straight “red card”.
I want you to know that many sisters will continue to respect you as a friend and would remain faithful to your relationship if you don’t eventually take this step of declaring your manifesto when you aren’t sure.
Truly that sister likes you and she is eyeing you but she loves you as a friend. Truly she is comfortable around you but she would only be comfortable with you as a friend.
If you cross your boundary, it may result to a relationship bandit oo. That you are her spiritual father or mentor doesn’t mean she will automatically play to your emotional drama.
If you think it’s her beauty that is attracting you to her, hope you know getting engaged to her doesn’t stop other ladies from being beautiful and you will also acknowledge their beauty.
If it’s her cleavage or physique that is turning you on, you will still see diverse “manifestations” of it on other ladies ooo. Don’t allow that be your conviction, you can wake up someday to discover that the physique is gone and the boobs are sagging.
Don’t think you can use her as the solution for your cravings for sex, research has shown that adultery is at the higher rate than fornication. Speak to your hormone sir, that “hard marking and tackle” you desire to give that sister can wait and be sure she is the one that deserves it.
Bobo, if you know you are convinced enough, don’t tarry oo else someone overtakes you and take your possession from you. Please, make your intention known on time.
Legislator and Minister of Affairs, Association Of Baeless Single Brothers Of Nigeria,
Masterpiece David Olawade.